Life is a fairytale

By Tobi Kale

I’ll get my happy Ending too, love is definitely  more complex than just any four letter word.
Sometimes, I Can’t help but wonder what it really is. Is it meant for only a specific few?
I’ve seen a lot of romantic movies yet my life hasn’t experienced even half a scene,
These things make me wonder if it truly exists or it’s just some make-believe. Some say
“you probably tend to fall in love with those who never loved you”- but really how do you
get to meet the one who loves you when everyone seems just the same?

Other times, they say “life is no fairy-tale, where you just glance at each other and  fall in love,
you have to make your move”. You finally make that move only to be left in the dark alone
with your imaginations (thinking of the most probable). They leave you lost in between scary monologues, unreplied texts and then zero emotions, I even hear that the feeling has to be mutual and I ask how many times do I have to fall in love to find the one with whom I share mutual interest with?

Then they tell you “when you find love, she would love u just d way u are and for what you are…

But the truth is love left
It left a long time ago
We stopped loving way back in time
We no longer love from the heart of feelings
We love for pleasure now
We all just paint  love
We fake it

Love isn’t the kind to seek consent before coming in, it’s that rude but lately our hearts seem to have a selective membrane… We all fall in love for the moment forgetting times when all the beauty, the strength, the wealth are all gone and all we need is a strong connection of hearts.

Well, its just me here with so much to say, lots of melodies to sing but no one to listen but alas! I won’t give up because I know love is somewhere, it’s also the sweetest feeling ever and that no matter how long, I won’t settle for less because regardless of who I am and what I have I also deserve the best and I won’t stop till I get it. That is true love.
Because life is a fairytale.


9 thoughts on “Life is a fairytale

  1. Love comes in many guises and we experience them all in out lifetimes. The love of a mother for her child, the bond in families, the love true friends give us, the love people give to pets, love is manifestly all around us. Then there is romantic love that is pedalled by fiction and the movies. Luckily or unluckily in this world there isn’t just the one…we meet many we are attracted to that are potential partners for our lives…I have a big debate about whether that initial attraction is love or just lust those mating hormones kicking in…making the world such a wonderful rose coloured place. The object of our affections perfect..I rather think that love….caring ,depth of feeling kicks in after that. When the glow has gone life kicks in and you still want to share. Getting a soul mate starts then but you will only get there by working at the relationship and most importantly on yourself. I think in my world life ain’t no fairytale it’s a process that I don’t dispute needs a sprinkle of magic but also a degree of work and self belief.
    I hope you find your life partner and lots of happiness.


  2. Since you’re blog is “Life is no fairy tale” I thought I should post for irony’s sake. I hope you do find love and what is in your heart. I thought no one would ever love me, but I found a wonderful man in the end. 🙂

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